58 ce~tifieates and a"e 7.'orki>;g e'se'~' e1'1;' _ l' ~'-v , I,hile tl ,-,hil'i"en loo}: nea+ in their neVi s bhool unif'oi·ms , and 1.-" ... t " :Ie, v~e T"a ... en'"s reserve tLpir pun':C">'~ p!'+ ,=yfl choosp to ' The 11 ""'L:":;'CO.L 1 _ l' e of ~ .)1· ",,...,,-, Q. in .' ~ -01']. +0 t .<.) + u"'J:_'i ""d +' ', .... t ('"'<1 L to '.<- ":IiJ.. +'e b ., ':l + It 0' I" v ',J 0 < Y ~" ~ P, v l~ . "1 c,- i" p vV t c:~' .., ') 1 F 0_: i , , J .... + " ~: .... 1. "'"'~ 1 ' e "I""Ir>:" - - - - - - - Uw l~ ~ ScA~-~3 ~ bush f'\.e.ar ~ s~ bu.JoL.:....3 ' 59 softer and the bo"s s a i d i n mo st c ases the i r mothel's r;olllCl ,lot <';,),lt r :)l them. ' h en chi ldren donbt do we} l at school they are scol ded . Somet i mes trey are even beaten or tffi'eatened that if they do not do well the;T would make them stop schooling . Pa r ents Day There is a sound cooperati on between the school tee.chers and the peop l e in tne i ',lage . What brings them together especially is t he Parents La", (n thi s day :?arents are invited to the scho01 to see the schon1 exhibition in which the little cr~ft work the children are able to do i s shown to them, and they take them round to the school farm to see the vlort: of their own children. Always before the function ends some of ~he~'Par,@nts are asked to address the chi ldren on good habits. The Parents ' Day, not only brings the parents and teachers together , but also gives them inspiration to send their children to school, when they see the sort of things they l earn i n the school. There are some school children ,;\,",0 are alvla~/s neat, dutiful and respectful to grown ups, and parents always admiile such children and ask thoee cLildren who are laz,' and not well- behaved to copy these children. Signs of gratitude to Teachers The parents in the village told me that they alw'Js ~11OW their gratitude to the teachers, for trainine their children for them , by giving them presents in the form of food such as plantain, cocoyam and vegetables such as onions, pepper, COCOyb1l1 leaves, and ground nuts. There is no distincti()hill I he training of boys end girls . They are all trained in the same way at school, and are taught the same subject lessons. Children shoVi great love and admiration fop their teachers, and give them all the respect they can. On Saturdays they bring them bundles of firewood or food .,nd cocoyam leaves from ',he il' farms. Friends and Plannates Friendly relations exi st among t he school mutes. Shi Idren can be frlends the first day they COl, Ie to se 101,1, C:' ,'i-,- hey have been in the school for a vlhile. Some children do not stick to few chosen fr L, "ds, and move from friends to f L'ieLds. Some - - .~-----~-~-- Du."';"~ ~oJ;,:Q-1') ~ C"'-ZI~ chCM?.se~ _ rn 0...\0, 0- cv- c.U..: ~.J oI. cu..e to t',le QC' 001 to lc eture the c1 ildren on lepr·os.j . .Ster ;:i 6 tel': I'll tl.e ,,'l=,dl'eL ',,0.'- ~s'_el to _e".o'e all tl:eir clo'(;['l'l£; , ~o tiH.t every part of the body could. be enll. . i~e <::!1'-' ttracti' e ~nd so becoMe ;:'0"''1 of' tl-~-irJ C"rl)'l l .=i C'Qvel'Sa r.> ~'"'\ci.r>", ., .... 'Io ...... ':1.e s .. pub€' 'lt~ ri te ~",r ~ ", T" :.-~:) ...... -1 J"e"''!'::;,l<"'i+ ..I..'-t;i .... t u _ _ i p po ...". ',J -" V '1':< ,,'" L e ~ i ct Q""' .1·1 'il 1 C"+ .... nr"' ,..," ++p.' L. ,aa:,6 the hair gl'OW bushy aDd raise up the ,',air in-front. TLis ~tyle mr,ey put on cloth~ 'l'hich al:'e of gaoe lupli ty. During occaRioYl8 bour'let frol" stores. '!' e ~chool "boy'" nnd the ro"s v:ho "onbt go +0 occasions . kinds of tpytiJes t e girls uRe for their dresses or rloths. On special occasiOYle trey .9ut on different kir1s of 8"nd81" and o-hoes, aJ:d \'Ial', i"1 Cro'lPS witt: t:ll;ir camer'as hanging from their shouJders. Sex ::CL.. . C8t i on by their uothers auout sex just. 1:ei'o['e they entere'l t'" is stage • :fTo'., tL ... ir:gs I-ave ct ...... n[efl. S'y"e of' the ar101e~ce'Y>t bc:;y-s ... ·"d [i Ip enEag ill "exual practice::'" and the girls ,·"cen ~hey are p~e.;Y'~"~ usc nOVlada:iS ,ot',e£'" all.&;'6 tea~h children about this "Ihen the:; a,ce ,?prforming the pub"L'ty rites. The boys ape tr'lgl"t ;"l,en tLe3; ar'e preparing to "ar?y. The 1- iggest occaeion ".n tr.e lif0 of' "), a 'oleecent girl is He cele"b, etion o~ the ':)ubert:r ri t~", v:hich i2 a cor.lbina~io:1 of pl'oclamatio,1 of her coming of age and 'lep vireinity. '::"',e puberty Christipnity, but as I haJ en ~ld illan to give 1£ a lot of infOrmation feel I 'lI11St ea;:,- eOr"'ethinr ~"O'lt it. 65 lavender, towel, litre and chewing stuf'f. i"he VIi'S taken to the river sire by an elderly Vloman '1'ho bathed her and taught her how to wash her napkine \"fell, how they should be changed often and every- thing in connection ¥Jith neatness. I was inf'ormed by a lot of the young girls that bef'ore they come to menstruation period they t':et to kno'v al l that happen in the processes of' menstruation f'rom their friends, when conversine; with them. They know that when it is getting to the period of nenstruation the nipples become verJ heavy a"d darker in colo1 r. Some pains are experienced in 'oheir stomach as well as in the waist. Some of them even feel nausea duri 1'l(l ttli s stage and vomit a lot. They told me also that durinp this stage girls become quick tempered end are annoyed about trifling matters. Confirmation takes the place of puberty celebration Owing to the la~se of the ' celebration of the puberty ri tes in the village ITsa':ye, when children who CO"le from Christian familieE are confirned, something is done to mark the beginning of puberty. During the confirmation week, children are given the best kind of food, rice, and stew, fufu and chicken soup. On the confirnbtion day sweets e.g. twisted calces, biSCUits, cakes are sent as presents to the friends of the family, including the child ' s friends as well. The father buys for the children new trunks in which are put neVi dresses, cloths, sandels, pomade, powder, sponge, soap and tOVlel. In the case of girls, mothers try their very best to ma}:e for them golden ornaments such as ear-rings, neck-laces, b:::'8celets, and buy them beads, When children see all these things they rejoice very much and realize also their parents ' love for them. Friends of the family, relatives as well as their own friends, send them preRen~s which are mostly noney. I ca"1e across tv/a adolescents \'Iho were confirmed not long ago. One of them told me that when he was confL'med 'le got a lot of mane,.' v'l' ich amounted to tVienty pounds. The other said he too had fifteen pounds. Vlhen I asked them v'hat t'-e;,- did \Vi th the money they said that they sayed some of the ,10ne;y in the post office, anJused the rest to buy more dresses, and ~andals. During confir1nation wee};: cLildren are relel'F.- the Pagan wal'u that a out six of the boys of t;,is age, have been sent to Aburi to serve as stool carriers, and ('ourt criers in the chief's house. Behaviour gives indication for fut_u~ ~a~ All the parents came to a conclusion that tr.ey can veI'~' 'fell 1 t.:. "~'::, 'c).~l,~,oen of this stage will do in future, from their actions, and behavionr at ho.~e. You can detect at once those who are very sensible and would turn to be clever people in the jOu tul!le. Those who are talented in farming, trading, drivers, smi ths, and servers at the chief ' s court. They al Vla:'s depend upon these evi ences to choose foY' them their futul'e career. A woman told me that she has two chil dren who are all in t'lis age group. T);re elder i s always interested in farm work. She can weed a very l arge portion within a short time, alwa,.'s the plants and seeds that she p l ants yield wonderfully heavy crops. She knows the se8sons which are suitable for different pl$nts. When they corne home from the farm; she is quite a dif, erent ')erson j 01' she ShOWf no love or sympathy to tre ,'ounger cousins in the 10use. She beats t'~ _ em when +hey come to her to beg for food, end has never dreamt of bathin ' I'I"I~ them 01' car' ying t ~e ,oung 'ta"i s,to "elp the 311nts. It is tl'e other one who dre"ds the idea of goi'l[ to farm to ,Iork in the t'W'{',S, who r - \ L~~_ A- _ tl~~j ~~ of. ~plc..:1s h.v ~ ~ . I-u.r S 1SWS ' ~ c,.ve. C"",,, s-&.. hoW .sh.Q... c."","~ i h • Glrl.s and (Juys easily get frustrated when they are ill or vlhen a member of the family is ill. When there is affection towards some body too, it is very fiiite1!p-e.- Adolescents are teasers We know children of this age group are very fond of giggling, laughing, hooting, rnickna1!lL1g friends and calling themselves names, these are very often done when they meet together to play. I gathered about eight adolescents together and through conversations with them, got to kno w Q lot of things that they do. SO".e of them told me that sometimeS t hey nickname grown ups, who scold them or offend them in some ways. A case VIas cited to me of a man who carne to defend his child who was fighting with a bOy in their' gang. Tl-'ey thought the man was a fool to have scolded them and to have defended a boy who oe'lave,l .lo.)lishly so they nicknamed him O.P.K. ' Opan;y1n KI"!ase.' leaning a foolich man. Anytime they saw this man approaching from afar, they shouted his name until he passed by, not knowine what was happening. In their pla;/6 at times they pull the legs of Eorne of their friends. e.g. if they saw a friend being scoldee1io,<, 1S ch11c.l'en learn to build up their conduct, they are apt to be good at a certain stage and be very bad at a dif'l"er< nr Rt> ,\. cr, '!Clei behaviour. to , among their bad friends in this company. As :,oon as they start beLaving badly, they become vero lr'.f'0rtL.pnt, go out when they choose, or sometimes choose to cook their own food. In the companies there seem to be sone leaders to .110"" J't,\-eren<:;e is ghen by tl"F ot.her p laYMates . f I J""L is -!.:, sh.".., ho-w +h.R.. 5 ~ , n-l-v" «.(O~~ I~ pl"'j~' 71 ::' -:"l":'re '1'he Li~c.. 1 .... l6.t i v '3" /.YJ. ?O\ Iprce -'- .... 1 L. .1 e to .h.ll:J O-P -l- .J.r>i C' ..,.....C:-, 1 is-l P"- of ..Lde1.r fc...:..1i 1" .c. lJ J A ~-,' r coopt cf .... , e;" ..:.!r'" 180.1.: ....L 1 --1- C • i Yl r v , t'· p:- . ~ p. ::' '"' _ i .- ,... '0 ' -: b .... +' e J.-'-~ "-:'0 ~ ~ Le t t.,POllJ:-' 1eo .,,- ' rtO ......... aSODe ' Fe. +0 t __ tit.:. + i ' i' , f ...,-!-OO.;.lU ' d S....vL 01 t i:ibint '""'\ , Ile8C'.1,-,tiJ!1 "fA• ...e "e ' ;11 "'e "."< - • ,.", e"'- -: i 1 t'e , 1e~. t ..pufc)! v ..... re, , e_~ t\ 1 enl, ()._~.L ic; c:J t ~ ... E.. _ .... Uo_ t a 1 t of .,' 'e ,., ~, ., ~ 1 "1'0 ",' i co .... .: I" :'0', f' n"J. _ .'i ~(' co. < f' "Je ..... '0+ sh.l.'i- 72 3. A lfsr'p, reb o Wo a , "'ohvlehwe mu yeyer-e . ~'ean i; lg ',''len" OllI' '-;i v e s v'ar-t to di v o r'ce you , JOU -P i""'d 0 t t'le .. ost fGl.it'~ful ::>f a '1. ~ .. 17i 8'"'e .. otJ.'G n'"' 1..,aanu baanu. 'fl ' is is gS i r' to e ncourr;p' l1'8 rri age . T l~,&.t in t his world "'13 live in couples . 5. ::::n:re t ~"awa_,.,p: t ma-In--re na wode v!are obea .. A lJ1an can ' t marry v;ith h is Dlouth . J ust sit ting dO'Iffi sayi'1g I have mar l·ied. 6. VifoJ"ere nomanum ~ VlO teJ.::erema a ur,. This is said to dic:ocourac..e 1"'Io l :lLam;;-,. That orren you 1:ave five \. i ves ;you have Dot filT-=" c.i:f~el"'F.nt ton.;:. 1es. You b£l1'e got a dif:fer·en+ ,ord for each. - 7. Oyer-e pa sen s i ka .. good "'ife i" better thsn [old. B. 0 :; Pl'P, 1''' ~~E <:l1-.()(3e~ A good "'ife is nett"r t.:1an a ppope rt.:;" . 9. 9baa h is1 &' te pp aeeben ar" na wugyae 8':,21"'e gyae aware a, ,, ' ani mmma nyam da. Th i s is to ~iscoupace divor·ce. Heaning a woman v'ho divorces a lot of ;"1.'slJ~rils is never respected. 1 O. Obe a ho :;'e fe a na efi ne l;t"~an Sl: ,1110. ~ e st.ainE'1 .. ~t." bluod . The s+ained «rect. "i~q ~&"f"'l toget"L .it.L some bottle of rum to the pa~'ent~ of' ~1--e L ~_ " '.:ho re j0iced 0vep t his c'ld boasted of their £00" t einin£ £iven to Leir c'ild. \ ;llen nott~illZ of the sort. W"P appn the ,;irl '.{Sf' t~'cen to 'e • '.-1'1 ... +. Lo':e-jr. ,ki ..L y::.... rn".e 0 '_1:::. ....... 1 ..e ... .l. i ndiff'e ''<=>'''.1- "'(.. , j uf-P .I- ' .... e J c. ' ~t , 1, 73 a nd f all deep l y in love . A lot of friendsh i ps exist among ~do lescents , and places "Ihere they meet together and fall in 1 0' e are mar,{et p l aces , at dances , during OdVlira festivals, in streets, a-'; the Church and at river sides. 'i~'hen they are deeply in love they- always choose to go out to meet their l overs and chat with them for a ,rhile. We en parents suspect chi l dren of [;oing out to talk ,lith their friends, they are prohi bited from-go i ng out during the earlie-I" years. A typical case Vias broupht to my notice. A man told me of how one day a man suspected his daughter of keeping friends vrith a son of his enemy. This made hi~ 15~i;L ~ lot and he called the girl before her mother and aunts an s'1e YEas Y!arned to stop at once. Lovers have no ears, so after ~he girl had told her boy friend what ha s happened they determined not to mind t,he father and his quack ways , and will carry a D with their love affairs. The boy ueed to come and sleep with the gipl in her l'oom. One night when the f ather a f the girl l earned that the boy was in the room of the girl, he got his g~n, sat outside the gate and swore an oath that he would kill the boy early in the morning when he would pass through the gate . The girl got to know that the f ather was sit ting at the gate wai tine for the boy to come and mee t his fate, she got very much worried. The windows were all barred and there was also just one sate leading to the hou"e. This ado l e scent who pas shalting with dread, but still curio'ls of findi ng a way of escape for her love ~ r, went from corner to corner, frustrated and didnbt know what to do. At last she went acposs a b i g hole in the bath room which was leading outside. She gave her cloth to ber lover who put it on just the 8arJe way as the girl put it on and he, having disguised himself thus went straight to the bathroom, passed through the hole to outside and took to his heels and reached home safely, panting for breath. Love songs Another evidence which shows that love exists I!:! this society is the love songs "i:" c'. dhildren sing, at 'light '<.en they 74 are p l aying . Al ways the gi.rls mee t toge t her under trees and s i ng l ove song, cal l ing the names of their lovers c l apping their hands and dancinG. Such love pone's are cal led ' Asoba or Nwonkoro ' , and the 1'0110 Ning is an exampl e : Asoba Song O¢ Owoda da me nna, o Mekobo peewa 00, Osen ·peewa abono 00 Yee owoda da na me na <;. Owoda d;a na me nna - Nana awoo nna Merekobo peev:a 00 Osen peewa abo noo 'fee owoda da na me na 3 Owoda da na me nna Nana Opare 00, Osene k eamo rekane 00, Yee owoda da na me na 'l- Ovrod a da na me nna Anti ekyia 00 Olateni nana 00 Yee owoda da na me na S Owoda da na me na Madamfos. 00 Dadamfoa 00 Okwa bereku owoanivla 00 Yee oVloda na me na Owoda da na me na Madamfoa 00 Okyemfoa m'w nwi 00 Yee owoda ds na me na I n this son!,", they call t'.e '10mes of' their Idlvers, and describe them. Some of' the descriptio"\8, aL'e that the:' lover" have e,res which are as big as those of owls and tl-ey are as hairy as tarantula. 74A - TRANSLATION OF ABOBA SONG 1. Awoda sleep and let me sleep. I am going to play peewa. One who excells at peewa has beaten me. Yes Owoda sleep and let me sleep. 2. Ayoda sleep and let me sleep. Grand child's birth day. I am going 1:0 play peewa. One who exce11s at peewa has beaten me. Yes Owoda sleep and let me sleep. 3. Oyoda sleep and 1-,et- m~ .1!leep. - ~ Oh, grand father Opare. A moslem priest is praying- Yes Owoda sleep and let me sleep. 4. OWoda sleep and let me SLeep. Anti is greeting . The grandson of a person from Larteh - Yes Owoda sleep and let me sleep. 5. Owoda sleep and let me sleep ' My friend, my friend. An owl has, noble eyes. Yes Owoda sleep and let me sleep. 6. Owoda sleep and let me sleep. My friend, my friend. A tarantula he is very hairy , Yes Awoda sleep and let me sleep. 75 Marr i ages might be pre-arranged I have already sta~ed that during this stage, in the conversations of adolescents, one can notice that they long to get married. People in this society lay great emphasis on the gift of children so at the age of 20 years the boys begin to propose marriase8 to their girl friends who may be round about the age of 18 years. Some times the parents pre-arrange marriages for their children. In such a case parents of the boy look for certain qualities in the girl and also about the kind of family from .. ·hich she comes. First of all they look to see whe ther the gir l is industriOUS, they watch her as she goes to the mar1ngagement, aJ¥i e de.f'ini te time will be fixed and agreed upon by the man ' s messengers for ~he engagement. Sometimes the parents refuse the money or -:;he drink and send it back. This happens when they have noticecl 80me of ~he diseases already mentioned above in the famil;,r, or when they know the two lovers are close relatives, and are related to each other maternally or t)1ey come from the same clan. This custom of sending the first drink or money is called ' Opon akyi bo' meaning knocking of the door. After this custom has been performed, paren+.s do no ~ get annoyed when, the man pays frequent visits to tbe girl. The girl can plait her hair, tie her headkercbief in the latest styles and can put on two cloths instead of one. The next procedure is the engagement. The fee for engagoment i~cludes payment of dowry and it ranges from two pounds to ten pounds. Tbis is known in Twi as ' tiade ' or bead money. After all the necessa,'y fees are paid it is a custom to pay another fee known as 't i nsa ' wbich is different from the ' tiacle' and is the head rum or tbe marriage stamp. This money is shared a:110'110 all the near nelations of the girl. The amount of 't i-nsa' ranges from eight shillings to two pounds eight. If this ' tinsa' is not paid, despite all the fees paid "")reviously tbe girl is then not legally and customary engaged. It is this that confirms the envagement. Immediately it is paid tbe ~an is fully entitled to the girl as wif e though the wedding has to take place at another time. \"1hen the last fee referred to above is paid anybody who has sexual 77 intercourse with t he g irl has to p a y ' Ayefare ' adultery or seduction fee. '.1ihe n the dowry and all t he necessary fees have been paid except the ' tinsa ' then the seduction fee should not be paid by the offender , because the "l"n \"ho has engaged the girl cannot customarily claim auth07ity over her yet. If also the ' tinsa ' is not :paicl before the ~'irl' s own :parents, their authorized representati ves, or guardians the engagement is not customarily reco-gnized and the man canAl!; claim the ' Ayefare ' . So in engaging a girl one is always careful to have the custOl'lS performed before the right :person and also to pay the ' tinsa '. "-;'"jen ,,~y "Sf' .f E'.cducticon goe s before a tribunal, the offender should be able to pcove that he has eng8.t;"l ~he girl customarily and paid the ' ti:e:sa' too before the parents of the girl, or legitimate successors according to custom. Christian engagement There is a slight difference with the Christian engagement. In this the engagement is done through the Christian Authorites and .a prc:s"b;yter accompanies the man ' s messengers to the girl's parents to have the engagement performed. The ' tinsa' tooJi s performed and the engagement ring is provi ded to make it legally a Christian engagement. I"Ir>en .a young girl is given in marriage to a stool occupant a sheep is slaughtered and its blood is used to annoint the feet of the girl concerned, to confirm the engagement. Announcing Wedding When the time fixed for the wedc'ing is nearly due, a drink is presented by the messengers of the man to the parents of the girl, to inform them that the husband intends to remove his wife from the parent's house to his. Both parties then agree and fix a dAY in the week. The most common days are Mondays and Saturdays. ',','hen this is completed an amount of mone,r rBl'ging from four DOLmds to twenty pounds is given to the girl to buy necessary things which are utensils, ffild cloths. Sometimes the husband bUy3 for her a machine ane a trullkbox. 78 Wedding Day In the even ing of the f i xed day the father of the bride g r oom sends for the brIde. "!hen the messengers reach the house of the bri de , the father of the bride calls members of his fam i ly and some relatives and friends together, and they are asked to help to take tl,e br'ide ",-WH,'!. The sister'S, 'Ji'others, aunts , and unc l es of the bride ass i st the bride in all directions and give he' so,ne presents. The girl ' s father or his legal substitute as a l ready explained dr i nkS some of the drinks brought by t'le bridegroom and pours libation t:) his gods and invokes the spirits to help to make the ffiar-l';iagb life a success . Last advice to the bride The bl'ide is then addressed by the old ladies in the family. They advise her to be vel'Y careful in trle way she rnanaee8 her domestic af~airs. She ShO,lld be thrifty and should be able to manage +he money given her for food. She should see to be punctual in preparation of her food, be industrious, quick and smart and don t waste time. She is advised not tJ sleep a lot but she should get up very early, in the morning to do her domestic duties. She should try to overlook most of the abuses from the husDb.m1 and should possess a lot of patience which will make her tolerant, and submissive to the husband. Last but not the least, she s1'ould be on friendly terms with her i-'1-lal'ls uS t'1ey can undermine her and easily spoil her marriage. Nar-nLil,';S from bride's father to husbands messengers The father or an uncle of t11e bride addresses the messengers that they have come to take from them their royal daught.er but j,,,t their slave, and that evsl'y care is to be given to her as re,ards her food and her clothing. Any money or propert; that 1, he gil'ls gains belongs to them, but when the girl is in debt the husband is l'esporsib'e for that. The fat' <-1' then ~ives the bride awa.! and han,Js her over to the eldest of the bridegroom ' s messenger~ , and with the assistance of the other messengers they award customary thHnks to the father ond -,is 79 people and bid them good-bye . At the gate of the l)ride ' s home the brot hers and sisters block the rath-way until a customary present is given 1;) em and they give them Vf/ ay and the bride is carried away amidst cheers . The bride goes in company of her' bridesmaids, whose number ranges from two to six, acco ming to the importance of the wedding, they are also accompanied by a gr·owl~up woman to a6<;ist her. Arrival of the bride at groom ' s house On reaching the gate of the bridegroom' s house, certain terms are pronounced to announce her arrival "Efi ade pa aseo, Eho oe" - meaning that ~he-y--have started a good thing. When they enter the house they are given seats and are welcomed Vltth loud greetings. The messengers are given some drinks andthe father of the bridegroom tells thel'1 what has happend in the hOolse since they went away . ' They too tell all that happened at the bride I s house, all the customary performances including the adllice given to tLem . The bride is then handed over to the father of the bride groIIU;! and she is passed on to an aunt of the husband" ho seats her on a seat ar,(l welcomes her thus ' Woaba a tra ase' meaning you have come to stay. So,ne interestin[' dances will now 1)e indulged in b~- t'1') 'o"m",::;te.cs "hile the older fol%s look on. The bride is then directed -L 0 a room specie lly prepared for her, and she changes 'leI' .lress, ~ftfl' che is conducted to the chamber of the oridegr::lOm and after some few minutes s-.)ent in joking with the bi'idal attendants, the latter leavet the c'.a'TIger arlO. P e happy couple are left to sleep. Honeymoon During the cour~e of the honeymoon the couple visit their fl'iends Vii 11 their attendants. They also visit t:,eir relatives and are given 'llany :presents especially mone,;", later on the young couple go to U ank ;'lese ki'1d relatives. After t;,is t11l- pair li\re as ".'. an an wife 8'-.. d tlJ.ey cODtinu p t'e~' nJr.. ... 'al \··or~~. The husband, if r.e is cl farmer continuAs his farminf nnd is helped by the wife. At leAst about co ,ld 110 is tHl ely he ," attendants. The e ld of tr,iz is EL' .eo '{with 80 the day when the bri de wi ll do he r ovm cooki ng . A sheep is s l au ght e r e d for th i s o()()aeion and tLe o1'i,:e peepal'es her maiden d i sh. Di spl ay o ~ ga i ety Dur i ng the wedding and the honeymoon , the pair are t o dress i n gorgeous s ilk and ve l vet attire with ornaments, wear plenty of cost l y jewels, i nc l uding go l d and preci OUS beads and appear beaut i fu l. Those who ape Christians go '/l;hrouEh the same weddi ng custom. The only di fference is, they go to the Ca t echi s t house where tffi y sign a document and the wedding is blessed by a minister from Abur L I n thie soctety, marr i age marks the end of adolescence . I mmed i ately a boy marries, he starts shoulder i ng responsibi lities and experiences the difficult life of an adul.t. Most of t he boys l eave the village immediately they are marl'hd, for twwn, to search for ~ caree~ from which they can get money to maintain their wives and t'1emselves and also money to be used on their children . The following bill shows the cost of the mania!""" of an average young man in the villare . ( 1) I ntroductory fee or Bethroval - The fees - 12/- (:!/) , 1 bottle of whisky : £,1/2/_ ( 2) Messengers fee 12/- (3 ) Engagement fee £8 . This is determined by the circumstance of the girl ' s marr i age. (4) Thanl,s money 01'.£2/8/- Head rum. (5) Wedding expenses £12 Total £24/16/-. C- i1 a.8(>1+ V- -~ CONCLUSION The effects of Western contacts Oll 1.,( e iIlolle of life of the peop l e of Nsakye are qu i te obvious, and the agents which have brought about these changes are the school, the church , and frequent visits of the inhabitants to the tovms. The average ,n,m at t,he village is very keen on the education of his chi l dren and has ta],en advantage of the fee-free education thoQgh he makeS-Bome provisions for the cost of the child ' s books and uniforms. l!.ost of t he children continue their education at Nsawam and Aburi. After finishing school they get jobs to do in the towns and during. their time of leave i,l,,"y COIlJf' i..o the village with new outlodKs which are copied by their :!1eople in the village. The gift of children is g"'eatly valued in the villa~e , and mother'" take lots of precaut~ons against evil influences during the time of pregnancy, and also from -l;he time they bring forth until t.he children reach adolescence. Tr"lnIllg of c'1l1rlren which is mostly infor-mal is the task of both the father and the mother. DUring the initial staf<;e of the child's life trainine is mostly administered by the mother, the father comes to the stage during the til11e of punishment, also from childhood to adolescence, in the case of boys, he is mostly concerned. Informal eJ.Hcation takes place when chiidren join their parents to perform thei! daily dclties, and during 1'e1:ti vals and puberty 1'il.;es w~.en children are taught to knoVi the custo.ns, history tradi t ions and ancestor worships. The total cost of training a child froT'! infanc~· t _, adolesee{,ue J.'an~·"'s between ~150 to <:;200. This is bopne by the paren ,E and Llnc"es of :'le cr i~ 1. Parents are r -:!odL'lg av'are of t'le changes that ta e )l>1c in Af ica1 80-::" t, . nd tl'ey in gOCl spirit ape doing ~heir best to "ive their cl1iJdren the sort 0'" education 'Ll">",1 "Iill 'fit t en in as useful citi~en . BI BLIOGRAPHY 1 . Psychology of Childhood 1lJld Ado l escence , by Luella Cole and the late John J .B. !.lorgan. PUblishers: Rinehart and Co., 2. Chr':i.s r, t;.J. i.-I J rJ rl Ai"ei. Jan Culture by The Chl'ist ian Council of the Gold Coast. 3. The Child is Right by James Hemming and Hosephinp Balls Publishers: Longmans 4. The Child's fine years by R.W. Shi elds 5. Marria~~ life in African tri5e by I. Schaper1l 82 CHI LDREN' S PLAY r+W-5 The interesting ,about children ' s play is, most of' them take pla<.;e ot ll"LSl t: . 1 . Ahir'lta ahinta A circle i s drawn and one Derson who is covered with a piece of eroth sits in the centre. The rest of the chil,lL't'>l1 po and hide somewhere , The ~erEon sitting in the middl<;l of tt e circle starts sin.ging thus "K'.'Iaa le" aa yoo de . Alata mpua Yenim di. M' ani m"ni nko , m' Hni nko. l1ereboaoqe , Yoo Cie !vI ba a mel:ye aht. "Jobeleye; dU':. '1'he person who i s sitting in the middle of tile circle runs hurriedly to search for the playmates who wOclld be hiding in s~cret places such as under some tabl(;s, beh i nd big bOXts, 'b",ni ,d f)',ll 'lin, s etc. As soon as they see their' opponent cominE, they :::,un to stul1d in the circle . ;/hen you 8.L' ca But or \,;,e1' a cloth is tLr c,.,"m at ;;o:.!, ~'ou beeo ,e a victim ana hove to act in the stead of the first ol'pmc(_"t . I'M l~ ." 'I •-• .I.) ·'1i1'ed number of' player'o for this pla:,-. ".8 many c"il rpT; as ossible eit,ler boy-O or g~rls can 1)e; engae., d in t:1is. 2. Foo TLere s1.ould be a collection of Sbi'" c., ul'rn o. li,-, of aboJ.t 12 i I:; . 10.1[, and 6 ins. ',.1::'e. v:J.e player tal:es a stri b ond Durie.::> i" in tbe sal1d, t," en L.e .l;ll ... r ..... C' ais fincer tl1roug:l s~ ' •. "\.i. 'L.b. no, 0~.i. r.t1.a no, 0 i 0, 83 Th i s 13 laid by on~ of the p l aJers and then b fantastic ,,+or:/ i s t old, the one who laughs i", beaten "hJ +Yje re~t 0 1" tne r. stor::;, l L .. e ti..l.i s; ";,;ekoo Zongo , T.1ihuu ob a k:ese bi na ohye kaba kete\{aa b i a erci .• o no orekasa nyinc,c flU o~,,, t \{e twe . "·Jc:lc. s)-olld cove' , I,hile S Je ',las talKiD&, IliLe was pulli,£ it all 4. e!:lpenali '1'he'1 one of' v:,e players __ 1" ~ (;8 Jf ~l e - -~ 1- ' v 8. ~ L_ L .. ':'c't ~~ _ C c.l ....... 'len ,c,', Co p;.:,a.d~ iil & 1101 1~c~.~ ~0 ~. t" e~­ Gl l\ ol...k2, vu......:+ p ! ~0:2..(; : ~,-c'-_ :''-"",e:..' ~~ l IeU.. ot--~ t,..)Mcl o l.; l ~ l\ ~ o nlnse'.p. ' e ."ia ' and the other one ' Opare ' . 3't They pat the thighs with the hand s ~r~ some few minutes snd then stretch the hands f Orl'lard . 'Ihen the l eft han1s or r'ight 1 ends ,'re str~":'::"F'il _t ~,_e " . e time , on both sides it mears those who chose Opare rave 84 gained 1 mark. I f a l ef t lland and a r i c:ht hand wer(l stretched at the same ti me , it is tho s e wh o cho&s e Ohyi a who have won . The pe r son who wins g oes on playi ng \"li th the nex t opponent until he b eats a ll t.he opponents . I f he is u n abl e t o beb.t them all and he is defeat ed by one of the opponents, t he l a t ter continues the gane . At t he end of the game , those who Vie r e def fJ at. e 1 aI''' mocked and hoote d . 7 . Ampe Th i s is t he sa:ne a s Ntosa . The only difference is that i t is pl ayed b y girls and i t is a jumping game. The e-irls divi de t hemse l ve s i n t o tv'o .gr-oul2s~ and tal:e t. e na .,c; s of Opare and Ohyi a as the boys do . Two opponeLi s 11\'1'. . : b..t' at the beginni ng of the line start pl ayi ng. They clap 1, heir 11ano.2 and jump up and as t hey are go i ng to land each p l aces one of her f ee t forward . If a right foot and a IfJft f.oot are p l aced fOl'Vla'd , ·i t '!,eans '~~v",e who chose Opare have Vlon and if two right f eet 01' two left f eet are stretched, then t a e opposite side has Vlon. This can be p l ayed e i ther i n team 0 1' each person tries to sco~e the marks agree(~ upon sa;;, 10 or 20. When you are able to score the _marks you are free and you stand or s i t aside until the others finish . Alv:ays the Iflst person is hooted or laughed at. 8 . Peewa Dwom Thi s is a game played by girls . They stand in a circle and sing . As they sing they pat their palms against their neighbo,u·s pa l ms , and clap their Lanels . Sometir.les they ll'ing in variations by pattine; their 'ight elbows against treir right hands instead of clapping. "'his is an example of the songs they sing. ' Adesa ee ee adesa ee Wose Akua nye 00 :1: Akua beko na obi abao ,"e adesa ee " 85 1. .... -/.' ...... '-t._ • .1. "":,...,p +i'''s, :?+O'1~e, pier,p~ ('If' ~tiCl~<:!. " e my so"!. fYte.r-V_Lb,;...j u., T' • for the IS:\, \). -",oney c,nd co.~e .. 11 I '"'m , ..L.P<:'l' i- +~ e s+ .. ,...··C'.£>o -,.~~ f'>ir,o-v'ood i 11tO q:-~Iall pi-,....".c;'·. Kofi 'Po, 'pnc;: fOi" ve ,",'e in '" "urry". 8E: YaT'le: Agne" do a :ex: Gi,,:'l Cl c~: FPi ,d ry II a nic(-:): o+ory '7 II r "'In +" 1 ] it, Eh I '1- e just forgotten . 'Nro C'll I'emi'~r ~ t' e~' r 11 rolle ~ one O~T one ano ':/pnt nel "in olel .lO ",n 1',"0 was l'::ird to her ,nr'1 ",s"ed twin c--ieoter ?nd tol' her o·f' l.er .f>ort' .. ne. b iven t'+- cifferE'n+, 1eC<:'l1"r.. r .:;.. , ' , "1 , - ...· 0 s , appv ' '1 ' p' C L , 87 motive behi nd this story is you are not to covert anytbi~e be l onginG to your siE' t er or "1eiehbour. Name: Francis Donkor Sex: Bo;)' .;ge : 6 Cl ass : Pr i mary I I r t erviewer talki n[ t, a [roup of children durin£; recrQ~tion t i ne. WhO has an interestinc pto·';)· t.o telL Subject: I wil l tell you one . I;tm tbin'drg of o"1e, ;)'es I '1C\'e re~,err.bered my story about a boy. Long, long ago , ~ ffldl1an, her husb~I'd a"!d son ~fent to farm to diG fame yam~. They dUb ~ l ot 8OOc6r1'ie" t:,em home. "hen they had reached home t.he bOI told his ,.,arent that he had left his musical pipe in the farm "nd he wanted to fO for t'lem. The parentIS urged hi.' not to bO ,"01' it was to) late, l)Ut he refused and 'fIer~. On t',e '·'ay he .:et LucH'e1' and he asl~ed him "Ihere he w£ s going. He told him ",;hat he Vfas gain, fop Lis musical pipe. Luc i fer beca'lle ve1'Y much alIDoyed with t'l 1 o~', scolded 'll.m that he vias'" bed oay w"'o didn bt listen to the Vlords of the pa·Aen+s. He ki led 11<1'1 qnd C,lt his body into pieces an'ren when:;: WI'S ~ix "'ears old [,1-- father brOUGht 91 me to s chool. He made for me a small cutlass , and on Saturdays, I went to the farm together wi th him and helped to do the weeding. Al ways dur i ng the holidays, I go to Nsawam to visit my elder s i ster, Name Lucy Boama Sex: Girl Cl ass: Primary V Age: 11 years I nterviewer talking to a grou:9 of children. "Who csn tell us what he 10es every-day, I am ready to give you one. Give me way, i want to stand imront of teacher and say it. When I get up early in t te morning, I wash my :Cace t.hen go to the kitchen, clean the stove, and mud it, then I boil water for my mother, prepal'e the breakfast, take my bath and get> ready for school. On Ssturdays I accompany my mother to her farm and we do a lot of weedi 11g and make plots. Then we dig some cocoyams and carry t l1el'l home. When I wash my th ~ngs I collect also my mother f s and sister f s and wash t.( em all. APPEl IX I II 92 CHILDREN ' S WISHES Name: Samuel Kofi Sex: Boy Class Primary IV Age: 10 years Wish: To get a very interesting book to read. 2 Name: Abosi Agnes Sex: Girl Class: Primary II Age: 7 years _I _ ~Vish: To get a pair Q-f sandals to wear and appear beautiful. .:l Name: Af'ua Hammond Sex: Girl Class: Primary III Age: 8 years Ylish: To get a bag to put in r:'.y things, when I am going to chapel. Name: Osei Kwadvro Sex: Boy Class: Primary III Age: 9 years "'ish: To get a sweet orange to eat. 5 Name: Agnes Donkor Sex: Girl Class: Primary V Age: 11 years '::ish: A necklace and a new cloth. Name: I saac Acquah Sex: Boy Class: Primar;r VI Age: 12 years Wish: A pair of knickersqnd a blue shirt. 93 7 Name: Yaw Antwi Sex: Boy Cl ass : Primary I Age: 6 years Wi sh: A l oaf' of' bread. Rice and stew. 'II Name: Akua Abraf' i Sex: Girl Class: Primary III Age : 9 years .Wish: A beautif'ul dress to wear and look pretty "I Name: Christiana ~~r~- Sex: Girl Class: Primary II Age: 7 years Wish1 A new dress to wear' to church and also a hat. 't' Name: David Boateng Sex: Boy Class: PrImary IV Age: 6 years Wish: To get a taxi to ride to Accra. APPEfm I X IV - , 94 Amma ee F'5.rema Amma Amma Amma Kwasi Kwasi ! Kwasi Kwasi Ani, Ani ~ Ani eni soro , Soro Soro soro mpo , rApo mpokye re, Kyere ! Kyere kyere to, Et o Eto to manya, Manya ! Manya manya obo, Obo 01)0 bo hemmaa, Hemmaa ! Hemmaa hemmaa nse, Nse Nse nse Kwae, Kwaee ! Kwaee Kwse bia, Ebia ! Ebia bia nyansa, Nyansa ! Nyans p nyansa nwa, Sone ! 95 Sone sone twa, Et vra ! Et'!/a twa kuru, Kuru ! ADomaa a oko ee Twa wo ho Begye wo lete ee, TwC! wo ho Thi s is another peev/a song, Flay ITo,3. 95A TRANSLATION OF PEEWA SONG Oh Amma Frema Amma Amma Amma Kwesi Kwasi , Kwasi, Ani. Ani Ani, Ani fears . Fe,ars Fears, fea r s , the sea. The sea The sea frog, ~how Show. Show, show your back Back Back, back I have got Got I have got, I have got a stone A stone. A stone, a queen of stone Queen ~ Saying Say, say t he forest Forest ', Forest a female forest Female Female, female wisdom W1edom . Wise, wise snail Snail - Snall, snsil , drip Drip' Drip, dr ip, . t op Stop , stop, stop, short Short , The bird passing Turn back -;I'. Come for your letter, Turn back. J: APPENDIX V 96 NmVONKORO This is an exa~mple of Nnworucoro, song sung by adolescent girls , v:hen they ar'e playing at niLht. In this song they try to describe some unhappy mal'rifle;f's. AhVlefoo a mokoo ahwee, Momma mo nsa so e ! Kokumaa se ti.1,tiTl1an ~r)0 :,,"'e!~e17 'Lr)~,gye mo nsam Nso enye mmoa nyinaa 1'1e ewo tebe pa ~ban nP_ "Petu--a, Ma no ntu Me a mekoo m' ahwee MenkyeI'ee hhul'o .lL"::awa koro a ruekyeree no Obonto abegye no me nsam Ode me aye Onanko Wabo kakyire ato me so Me nso ohianiwaa f.1abo homa mahye ne hwenem Mede no maye nantwie Thaa se ode me ara ne no Menso ~;aye no bi Opeaw Eyee deen na eyee deen ? Yei au II'" nen n lewuo Twewaa ba Konkontimmaa nya huro a pire Onipa do wo a na edan sen Na wayi n' anim se Mene ViO te Adoa nwoma so ? 97 Akogyan nana Agyanom Akogyan nana se Boran so aduoson agya Ehe na tumi nni Bantama na tumi wo Aware tumi wodi a, Yetu wo so Akogyan nana Womame ntoma a, !lame asin mmiensa Ebia ~_ UwRW~ ba Miwu a mede ako Nan~ 1i<"11f'ra:na kesee a Ehuu nnaano Dwoada Abubu mmabaa p e;'l kVlan InU Agyanom momf'a akuma Nkoma Asantef'o Agya Kwa Asiedu Enneemmaf'oo awaree Orense wo se Kodi wo hia Etia do Oduraa Akyem Yeabo wo nenam mu Odlliil si ho a, Na .:nerekoy,'ar'l-' )1 :-nnuro Obaa "Ena ayi" Yeabo no nemam mu Odum rebetutu ama borof'ere asi ananmu Ebia na merebewu Menni l¥sianan mu Dee cwo oba Ne nea onni ba Te f'ie Oko asuo ba a, 98 Obenom akodu kuposuo Otwa nsonhwea a, One VlO aye baako Okote piren a, One wo aye aka Nsuo 1Ji aye aka Nsu) bi da p~antam Yefre no sen ni ? ~"'ofre no tiati&n k08" Agya Ofosu Akemfoo Kraman din Wo beye deen Na worenka wo 10 asem Kookoo ato dwe ':'0 ma me ntoma a Ma me asin ~niensa Na JTlewu a, Mede akae \YO . 98A TRANSLATION OF NNWONKORO Those who went a fish1ng~ Hurry up . O~ else the mighty fish will snatch the fish from you. But not all fishes are good j I went to fish . I did not catch any fish, I caught just a little fish> The mighty fish has snatched it away from me , He has made me a fool , He has put a weight on me , Poor girl. J. have also put a thread inside his nose. . I have made him a cow< He used to cheat me .= And I, I have pttd him back . And what happened, what happened? Am I going to die from this ;:> The idea , Come what may) When somebody loves you, he can offend you. How much more when he has made it plain that he hates you Akogya Grand Child , Father's Grand Child says , A father of seventy wards, Where lies power , Power lies at Bantama ' Even when you are reigning in marriage , One day you will be d~stooled · Akogya Grand Child When you give me a piece of cloth, Give me six yards, I may not bring forth , And may carry my cloth with me when I die . The tornado which happened last Mond~ Has made some twigs fallon the way, Fathers bring with you axes ) And give them to the Ashantis , Father Kwa Asiedu Modern marriage Oh : He will not tell you to go away, But he will be giving all sorts of trouble~ I will not go snd marry a boabab tre~ When there is an Odum tree , Soon you wil l be sacked, Are Odum trees going to fall and be succeeded by pawpaw tree4 ? 98B Perhaps I may die soon, I have no body to inherit me , Woe betide one who has no child, After he has fetched for water He drinks until he arrives in another town, When he is crossing a river, He is friendly with you ; Immediately he gets at the bank . He quarrels with you, Some rivers are quarrelsome; Other rivers pass between the le~s How i s it called? 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